#55.

things i've learned since becoming 20:

1) never waste your time and effort in something that you don't believe in.
2) haters will be haters and they're not worth your time anyway.
3) feelings are like light waves, they reflect and absorb.
4) apparently, gifted children think a lot about death.
5) no man is ever worth self-degradation. if you find one, make sure you marry him.